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December 5, 2006 genevive

Last monday afternoon, I was in a hurry going to Graphic All-in Store when at the street of Agudo Road a mother carrying a baby with her other son ride on with the Motorela I was in. I was seated at the corner and the mom was infront of me carrying her baby. I was busy texting my friend Elva when the mom removed the cloth that covered the baby’s head. I was at then shocked but i didn’t show it to the mom because I don’t want to offend her! I know you are wondering why I was shocked but the baby’s face and head were deformed. I asked the mom “Mam, what happened to your baby?” She then replied, “She have Cerebral Palsy.” Seeing the baby was really frightening because of her face so much deformed, it was like seeing a monster on a movie. But I never showed my feelings towards her, instead I sympathized on the mom and the baby’s condition. I was asking the mom many things about the baby and all. And I also learned that they are poor, well it was actually obvious when you see how they are in person! I reached for the baby’s legs and caressed it and I saw a smile on the baby’s deformed face. At that time I was able to realize that I was so blessed that I am not like her (the baby) because if I would have been that baby I dont think I would have life at all! Things are for sure difficult for the family of that baby, especially that they have to go to the hospital once in a while for such check-ups and medications. I was really sad to see how the baby was and felt too bad about it! When I had to go I handed the mommy a little amount for additional funds for fares and stuff! I was happy to help in a little way and I’m sure if I were you, you would also feel the same way I did!

And more about the disease here’s what I got:

Many children with cerebral palsy have a congenital malformation of the brain, meaning that the malformation existed at birth and was not caused by factors occurring during the birthing process. Not all of these malformations can be seen by the physician, even with today’s most sophisticated scans, but when CP is recognized in a newborn, a congenital malformation is suspected. When a diagnosis of CP is made, the mother and father often feel guilty and wonder what they did to cause their child to have this disorder. While it is certainly true that good prenatal care is an essential part of preventing congenital problems, it must be stated that congenital problems, or “birth defects,” often occur even when the mother has strictly followed her physician’s advice in caring for herself and the developing infant. Though the causes of “birth defects” are usually unknown, we do know that the developing brain can be affected by several factors. When the fetus is exposed to certain chemicals or infections through the expectant mother, for example. The developing brain can be injured if the expectant

mother suffers severe physical trauma, the fetal brain can be injured, too, but this is rare. Finally, prematurity and a low birth weight have been shown to be related to an increased incidence of specific disorders. Many chemicals are known to adversely affect the developing brain, alcohol being the most commonly used. The term Fetal Alcohol Syndrome describes the long-term, multi-system effect of alcohol on a child whose mother abused alcohol during the pregnancy. When a fetus is exposed to large amounts of alcohol, several body systems, including the neurological system will almost certainly suffer damage. Cigarette smoking by the mother has been shown to decrease birth weight, and low birth weight is associated with several disorders, including cerebral palsy. Severe malnutrition in the mother can adversely affect brain growth in the fetus, and it, too, can result in a low birth weight. The use of cocaine or crack by the expectant mother is associated with blood vessel complications, and these complications affect many organs as well as the central nervous system. Cocaine use is increasing and thus becoming more prevalent as cause of brain damage in infants. Most infants whose mothers used cocaine during pregnancy develop mental retardation rather than cerebral palsy, however. Infections such as rubella (German measles), toxoplasmosis, and cytomegalovirus (CMV), ( if a woman has them during pregnancy), also may injure the brain of the fetus. Rubella can be prevented by immunization, prior to becoming pregnant, and the chances of becoming infected with toxoplasmosis can be minimized by not handling the feces of cats and by avoiding raw or uncooked meat.

Congenital infection with human immunodeficiency virus (HIV, the virus that causes AIDS) also causes brain damage in children, though it usually causes mental retardation rather than CP. It is likely that many other infections in the expectant mother injure the developing fetus, but they are not recognized as causative factors because the woman who has the infection either does not recognize the symptoms of infection or is symptom-free. Premature infants are at a much higher risk for developing cerebral palsy than full-term babies, and the risk increases as the birth weight decreases. Between 5 and 8 percent of infants weighing less than 1500 grams (3 pounds) at birth develop cerebral palsy, and infants weighing less than 1500 grams are 25 times more likely to develop cerebral palsy than infants who are born at full term weighing more than 2500 grams.

any premature infants suffer bleeding within the brain, called intraventricular hemorrhages, intracranial hemorrhages. Again, the highest frequency of hemorrhages is found in the babies with the lowest weight: the problem is rare in babies who weigh more than 2000 grams (4 pounds). This bleeding may damage the part of the brain that controls motor function and thereby lead to cerebral palsy. If the hemorrhage results in destruction of normal brain tissue (a condition called periventricular leukomalacia) and small cysts around the ventricles and in the motor region of the brain, then that infant is more likely to have CP than an infant with hemorrhages alone. Does prematurity “cause” cerebral palsy, or do some infants who are born prematurely have abnormal brains from the beginning, leading to their premature births? We do not know the answer to this question. (article taken from http://gait.aidi.udel.edu/res695/homepage/pd_ortho/clinics/c_palsy/cpweb.htm#RTFToC3)

I hope that you will also help in little ways for these people!

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6 Comments Add your own

  • 1. bang  |  December 5, 2006 at 5:17 pm

    It was so nice of you to mention my name… Naks… kidding aside.. you have a heart of gold… It’s nice to know that there are still people who have a heart in them to show sympathy to those who are in need. It might be simple
    act but it was more to them than that in fact it ease their feelings… Feeling of unwanted… and some sort…

  • 2. RApiRAP  |  December 5, 2006 at 5:33 pm

    Sometimes we seem not to care on what’s going on in the society but once in a while we realize that life is too hard for some other people. We may not experience what they feel but even the view alone of their pitiful circumstances lets us feel deep inside their pain. Their situation can let us face the sad reality that life isn’t all roses. On the other side, life is nothing but thorns for them. In our own little ways, we could help them. A touch alone can heal, a few encouraging words can comfort the pain.

    If we can have a lot more folks like Gen, it would be a much better place, a happier world to live in. We could help make life easier for those who can’t seem to find life’s significance in a very chaotic world. Help make a life worth living.

  • 3. shing  |  December 5, 2006 at 5:36 pm

    ’twas so kind of you grl to do such act. in a way i should say life is really unfair…why the heck that ‘lil angel need to suffer.how pitiful, but somehow God has His own reason. May He guide ‘lil child’s family & for the rest of those children who are sick & in pain.Keep them strong & let them hold on Lord.Amen.

  • 4. RApiRAP  |  December 5, 2006 at 5:39 pm

    keepin’ it real++++++

  • 5. Nakeia  |  December 5, 2006 at 6:02 pm

    Thats a very sad story. But Im pleased to know you were touched by it.Very nice of you to do what you did.Im proud to know you ;)

  • 6. saeyun  |  December 6, 2006 at 2:06 am

    my heart goes to that child and to the family. i know it would be very hard on them, considering how our society works. most people, if not all, tend to discriminate them. and some times, politicians tend to use “these people” as their way to boost their career by their “charity” acts. I know it’s not really bad, but sometimes I felt like they are using the poor to get what they want.

    Anyway, back to this stuff. I think I can really relate to the mother, especially since I have a brother who is a special kid. Although my brother’s face is not deformed, and is very much normal looking, but he is an autistic. I have experienced lots of weird looks and sometimes glares from strangers whenever the family goes out. But one thing I learned is that we have to accept the situation, and we have to love what God has given to us.

    I do hope that the mother of the child would not condemn him someday because of what he looks like, but rather, accept him because he is a gift given from God. I pray that the mother would be strong and would overcome the challenges, and so with the child as well =D.


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